POLYGAMI

وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلاَّ تُقْسِطُواْ فِي الْيَتَامَى فَانكِحُواْ مَا طَابَ لَكُم مِّنَ النِّسَاء مَثْنَى وَثُلاَثَ وَرُبَاعَ فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلاَّ تَعْدِلُواْ فَوَاحِدَةً أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ ذَلِكَ أَدْنَى أَلاَّ تَعُولُواْ
[An Nisa 4:3] And if you fear that you cannot act equitably towards orphans, then marry such women as seem good to you, two and three and four; but if you fear that you will not do justice (between them), then (marry) only one or what your right hands possess; this is more proper, that you may not deviate from the right course.

وَلَن تَسْتَطِيعُواْ أَن تَعْدِلُواْ بَيْنَ النِّسَاء وَلَوْ حَرَصْتُمْ فَلاَ تَمِيلُواْ كُلَّ الْمَيْلِ فَتَذَرُوهَا كَالْمُعَلَّقَةِ وَإِن تُصْلِحُواْ وَتَتَّقُواْ فَإِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا
[An Nisa 4:129] And you have it not in your power to do justice between wives, even though you may wish (it), but be not disinclined (from one) with total disinclination, so that you leave her as it were in suspense; and if you effect a reconciliation and guard (against evil), then surely Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.

I didnt see ayah that facilitate or motivate a man to do polygamy. If they understood what that ayah said, they will thinking thousand times to do Polygamy. Why? Because, noone can be fair.

Strangely, this ayah became the "right to be full of the" man" to do polygamy.
They claimed, the action to follow sunah the Prophet Muhammad SAW. became ridiculous when the practice of polygamy was in fact used as the Islamic benchmark: increasingly active polygamy was regarded as increasingly good position of his piety.
Or, increasingly patient a wife received destiny as the 1st wife equal to increasingly good the quality of his faith.

The prophet of Mohammad didnt do polygamy when He married with Khadeeja. Later, The prophet of Mohammad married with Aisyah (the only virgin's wife that Rasulullah had). When He married with Aisya He did Polygamy with old widow women who had kids. Rasulullah did that because He wanted to kept their honor and deen, not only to fulfil His manly needs. He married them for the sake of Allah.

If He married only for 'fun' why should He married with older women?

Think about that!

But what happen now? A man do polygamy by hurting his 1st wife? Why hurt? Because He marry with a younger, more attractive than his 1st wife.

Hi men!!! If you really want to complete your deen by follows Sunnah Rasul. You should do it totally! If you want to do Polygamy according to sunnah as Rasulullah did, just married with old widow women with many kids who need your attentions.
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