Letter for My Husband

وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلاَّ تُقْسِطُواْ فِي الْيَتَامَى فَانكِحُواْ مَا طَابَ لَكُم مِّنَ النِّسَاء مَثْنَى وَثُلاَثَ وَرُبَاعَ فَإِنْ خِفْتُم
أَلاَّ تَعْدِلُواْ فَوَاحِدَةً أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ ذَلِكَ أَدْنَى أَلاَّ تَعُولُواْ

[An Nisa 4:3] And if you fear that you cannot act equitably towards orphans, then marry such women as seem good to you, two and three and four; but if you fear that you will not do justice (between them), then (marry) only one or what your right hands possess; this is more proper, that you may not deviate from the right course.

وَلَن تَسْتَطِيعُواْ أَن تَعْدِلُواْ بَيْنَ النِّسَاء وَلَوْ حَرَصْتُمْ فَلاَ تَمِيلُواْ كُلَّ الْمَيْلِ فَتَذَرُوهَا كَالْمُعَلَّقَةِ وَإِن تُصْلِحُواْ وَتَتَّقُواْ فَإِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا
[An Nisa 4:129] And you have it not in your power to do justice between wives, even though you may wish (it), but be not disinclined (from one) with total disinclination, so that you leave her as it were in suspense; and if you effect a reconciliation and guard (against evil), then surely Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.

Oh my beloved husband, I love you for the sake of Allah.
Insha Allah, I'll always stand by you a hole of my life.
Until we return to Allah.
We'll be always together in happiness or sadness.
Together build our lovely family with our kids.
See our kids grown up.

Beloved, please let me know, when I fall down!
Please advise me if I dont satisfy you.
Please let me know!
And I'll improve myself to satisfy you for the sake of Allah.

Supposing that, in our sestiny has written that we are not longer together.
Insha Allah, I'll try to accept it as my destiny.
If you want to do polygamy, please let me know!
Let discuss it together.
I dont want to ignore the truth that our religion declared.

You may marry, if only:

***I'm infertile (na'udzubillahi min dzalik)
Yeah I know, I'll be okey with this reasons. But I think, it will hard for me to see you happy with your new baby who born from other woman. While I lost my confidence due to I'm infertile. MY beloved husband, may I ask divorce from you?

***I'm frigid (na'udzubillahi min dzalik)
Yeah I know, you have manly needs that urgently to fulfil. If I close my eyes about my weakness it means I dont care If you getting closer to ZINAH. Oh my beloved husband you may marry due to this. I'll be okey.
But wait........I think I cant see you live happyly with other woman. How could I see you making romance with her?
Mmmhhh, may I ask divorce from you?


But I'll help you to choose women, if you really want to do sunnah as Rasulullah did. I'll totally support you. I want to be your fairy in Jannah (=paradise). Let me choose your next wife according to Sunnah Rasul:

Do you still remember Mak Minah? Our neighbor. She is an 69 years old widow. No kids. She is living alone, no family beside her. And her husband has passed away since 20 years ago. She works as maid to fulfill her daily needs. How a pity Mak Minah. She has to pass her old day by working hard. Would you mind if She's being a part of our lovely family? Would you marry here? I'll be okey if she is being your 2nd wife. So I will have a friend when you are far away from house.

Or Pok Ponijem who lives not far from our street. She is 50 yrs old. A widow with 10 kids. She would prefer to divorce with her husband than converted her Islam to her husband new religion. She prefer to live along with her kids only. As long they still in Islam, she doesnt care with anything. She is a trully moslemah who hardly strugle for her religion. She can work anything as long its halaal and her family can continue live. Oh, how tremendous is she?
Beloved, would you marry her? She's be our partner to build a sakinah family. We can rent house for her and her kids. Or may be they can live in our big house. Oh...

Or may be Cut Meena, a newly comer on this area. Her husband died in Aceh, He was killed by separatism gangster. Cut Meena now is living along with her son. All of her family in Aceh died due to Tsunami. She has 7yrs old boy. She is a woman with softly heart. She is a pious moslemah. Yeah, because She was Quran theacher in Aceh. Her age still 42 yrs old (I'm 24 yrs old). Beloved, would you marry her???

Beloved, can choose one of them to be your next wife, I mean 2nd wife. But, If you really want to do polygamy as Rasulullah did. I'll be okey if you marry all of them. Mak Minan as 2nd wife, Pok Ponijem as 3rd wife and Cut Meena as 4th wife. ANd I'm as 1st wife. Hows that?

Insya Allah we'll meet again in Jannah. Ameen
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