Thursday, December 14, 2006



BAHASA INDONESIA

Indonesian (Bahasa Indonesia) is the official language of Indonesia. Indonesian is a standardized dialect of the Malay Language that was officially defined with the declaration of Indonesian independence in 1945, and the two languages remain quite similar.

The language is spoken fluently as a 2nd language by most Indonesians, who use a regional language (examples are Minangkabau and Javanese) at home and in their local community. Most formal education, as well as nearly all national media and other communication, are in Indonesian. In East Timor, Indonesian is recognized by the constitution as one of the two working languages (the other is English).

The Indonesian name for the language is Bahasa Indonesia (literally language of Indonesia); this name is sometimes used in English as well. The language is sometimes called "Bahasa" by English-speakers, though this simply means "language" in Indonesian.

History

Indonesian is a normative form of the Malay Language, an Austronesian (or Malayo-Polinesian) language which had been used as a lingua franca in the Indonesian archipelago for centuries, and was elevated to the status of official language with the Indonesian declaration of independence in 1945, drawing inspiration from the Sumpah Pemuda(Youth's Oath) event in 1928. It is very similar to the official Malaysian form of the language. However it does differ from the Malaysian form in some ways, with differences in pronunciation and also in vocabulary, due in large part to the many Dutch and Javanese words in the Indonesian vocabulary.

It is spoken as a mother tongue by only 7% of the population of Indonesia (mainly in the vicinity of Jakarta), but altogether more than 200 million people speak it, with varying degrees of proficiency. It is an essential means of communication in a region with more than 300 native languages, used for business and administrative purposes, at all levels of education and in all mass media.

However, most native Indonesian speakers would admit that the standard correct version of the language is hardly ever used in a normal daily conversation. One can read standard correct Indonesian in books and newspaper, or listen to it when watching the news on television, but few native Indonesian speakers use formally correct language in their daily conversations. While this is a phenomenon common to most languages in the world (for example, spoken English does not always correspond to written standards), the degree of "correctness" of spoken Indonesian (in terms of grammar and vocabulary) by comparison to its written form is noticeably low. This is mostly due to the fact that most Indonesians tend to mix aspects of their own local dialects (Javanese, Sundanese, Balinese, and even Chinese) with Indonesian when speaking, which results in the creation of various types of accented Indonesian, the very types that a foreigner is most likely to hear upon arriving in any Indonesian city or town. This phenomenon is exacerbated by the use of slang, particularly in the cities. A classic example of a speaker of accented Indonesian is former president Soeharto, whose Javanese dialect came through whenever he delivered a speech.

The Dutch colonization left an imprint on the language that can be seen in words such as polisi (police), kualitas (quality), konfrontasi (confrontation), kopi (coffee), rokok (cigarette), kantor (office), and resleting (zipper). There are also some words derived from Portuguese (sabun, soap; meja, table; jendela, window; and gereja, church), Chinese(pisau (匕首), knife or dagger; loteng, [upper] floor), Hindi(kaca, mirror) and from Arabic (khusus, special; maaf, sorry; selamat ..., a greeting; kursi, chair). There are also words derived from Javanese(aku, I (informal), and its derivative form mengaku, confess).

Vocabulary

Indonesian as a modern dialect of Malay has borrowed heavily from many languages, including : Sanskrit, Arabic, Persian, Portuguese, Dutch, Chinese and many other languages, including other Austronesian languages. It is estimated that there are some 750 Sanskrit loanwords in modern Indonesian, 1,000 Arabic (Persian and some Hebrew) ones, some 125 Portuguese (also Spanish and Italian) ones and a staggering number of some 10,000 loanwords from Dutch.The latter also comprises many words from other European languages, which came via Dutch, the so-called "International Vocabulary". The vast majority of Indonesian words, however, come from the root lexical stock of its Austronesian heritage.

Although Hinduism and Budhism are no longer the major religions of Indonesia, Sanskrit which was the language vehicle for these religions, is still held in high esteem and is comparable with the status of Latin in English and other West European languages. Residents of Bali and Java tend to be particularly proud of the Hindu-Buddhist heritage. Sanskrit is also the main source for neologism. These are usually formed from Sanskrit roots. The loanwords from Sanskrit cover many aspects of religion, art and everyday lives. The Sanskrit influence came from contacts with India long ago before Christ. The words are either directly borrowed from India or with the intermediary of the Old Javanese language. In the classical language of Java, Old Javanese, the number of Sanskrit loanwords is far greater. The Old Javanese — English dictionary by prof. P.J. Zoetmulder, S.J.(1982) contains no fewer than 25,500 entries. Almost half are Sanskrit loanwords. Unlike other loanwords, Sanskrit loanwords have entered the basic vocabulary of Indonesian, so by many these aren't felt as foreign anymore.

The loanwords from Arabic are mainly concerned with religion, in particular with Islam, as can be expected. Allah is the word for God even in Christian Bibletranslations. Many early Bible translators, when they came across some unusual Hebrew words or proper names, used the Arabic cognates. In the newer translations this practice is discontinued. They now turn to Greek names or use the original Hebrew Word. For example, the name Jesus was initially translated as 'Isa, but is now spelt as Yesus. Psalms used to be translated as Zabur, the Arabic name, but now it is called Mazmur which corresponds more with Hebrew.

The Portuguese loans are common words, which were mainly, connected with articles the early European traders and explorers brought to Southeast Asia. The Portuguese were among the first westerners who sailed east to the "Spice Islands".

The Chinese loanwords are usually concerned with cuisine, trade or often just exclusively things Chinese. There is a considerable Chinese presence in the whole of Southeast Asia. According to the Indonesian government, the relative number of people of Chinese descent in Indonesia is only 3.5%. Whether this is true or not is still a matter of debate, many think the number is much higher. But what is sure is that in urban centres the number can be as high as between 10–25%.

The former colonial power, the Netherlands, left an impressive vocabulary. These Dutch loanwords, and also from other non Italo-Iberian, European languages loanwords which came via Dutch, cover all aspects of life. Some Dutch loanwords, having clusters of several consonants, pose difficulties to speakers of Indonesian. This problem is usually solved by insertion of the schwa. For example Dutch schroef ['sxruf]=> sekrup [sə'krup].

As modern Indonesian draws many of its words from foreign sources, there are many synonims. For example, Indonesian has three words for "book", i.e. pustaka (from Sanskrit), kitab (from Arabic) and buku (from Dutch). These words have, as can be expected, slightly different meanings. A pustaka is often connected with ancient wisdom or sometimes with esoteric knowledge. A derived form, perpustakaan means a library. A kitab is usually a religious scripture or a book containing moral guidances. The Indonesian words for the Bible are Alkitab and Injil, both directly derived from Arabic. The book containing the penal code is also called the kitab. Buku is the most common word for books.

In addition to those above, there are also direct borrowings from various languages in the world, such as "karaoke" from Japanese, and "modem" from English.

“Sepatu” = shoes is derived from Spanish word “ZAPATOS” for the same meaning. Other simple words are “Gratis”=free of charge from Gratis. “Matimatika”= Math from Matimaticas, “Fisika”=Physics from Fisica.

***taken from many sources especially GOOGLE


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My Cocktail Personality:

How to make a Risma Budiyani
Ingredients:

1 part success

3 parts humour

1 part energy


Method:


Combine in a tall glass half filled with crushed ice. Add wisdom to taste! Do not overindulge!


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Check the picture carefully! The Pertamina's fire lick in Lapindo (Surabaya) formed Allah's Arabic Writing and the sea horse (Pertamina's old symbol)

It happened after Pertamina's gas pipes in Jalan Tol Porong-Gempol exploded 22th November 2006.The location was in LAPINDO's Mud DISASTER.

SUBHANALLAH!!!

It was untouched picture. Trust it! Check it out www.detiknews.com


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INFLUENZA



Rainy season has been coming........
It means time to Influenza virus.
Its been 4th day, I have badly influenza this year.
Yah...time to pray as much as possible.

Allah will listen a truly 'dua' from us when we are in bad condition.
AMEEN.........
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Surat Cinta Saiful Malook ROCK THE WORLD



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Since the first launching of fabulous novel ‘Surat Cinta Saiful Malook’ (SCSM) at the end of April on the market. Then unintended promotions from GATRA magazine, AVT Pushto Channel, Metro TV. Suddenly my novel become booming. In fact we’ve never held ‘big launching events’ to introduce it. The introduction only by small event in Pakistan Embassy School, mouth to mouth, www.escaeva.com, etc.

Honestly, I’ve never imagined it will become ‘sensational’ and well-known. I thought, who’ll buy a true story novel about love from a Risma Budiyani? I was not a celeb or a famous author. I thought people would passed my book and prefer to choose novel from famous author such as Dee, Ayu Utami, Djenar Maesa Ayu, Ninit Yunita, etc. Or book from celeb such as Tamara Geraldine, Rieke Dyah Pitaloka, dll. I could imagine, they would asked by themselves, “What the hell is Risma Budiyani?”.

Suddenly, I got so many sympathies from my reader, by sms, phone, or by email. Not only readers who stayed in Indonesia but also from outsider (Malaysia, Egypt, Singapore, Pakistan, etc). Behind, I know that some of Indonesian stores in abroad sell my novel. I didn’t know how could they got my contact number? After talked to them, I knew that they tried hard to get mine. Some of them got from escaeva (my publisher), contacted Mr. Didik (my editor), contacted Metro TV (Breakfast Club team), got from my friends, and remains people didn’t want to let me know from whom they got my contact number.

The contents of SMS, phone-talking, email are various;
Most of them asked, “Was it really yours?”
“When will the version in English and Urdu be launched?”Some of them asked, “How’s Saiful Malook’s condition now? “
“Do you regret your love story?”
“Do you still sad?”
“Do you still in love with Saiful Malook?”
“Will you marry him, supposing that He recovers from madness and comes here?”
“Do you have any boyfriend?”
“Have you married?”

or the just wanted to share their experience with cyber love or their expatriates lovers. Or just wanted to know my next book.
Or just told their touched experienced when read my novel. They cried a lot, even they are males.
And bla…..bla…bla…

Honestly, I have told to them for many times that as an author I had to combine experiences, knowledge, and imaginations to build good story. Although, most of live witnesses claimed that it was really mine. But, I told you. It was a novel not an autobiography of a famous girl.

It was become ridiculous when some readers asked me about my feeling to Saiful Malook now. And blamed my self, why should I left him now? after all that has happened. After so many struggles and efforts which I’ve done. Why should I love somebody else now? And then they said that ‘I’M THE LOSER’ , ‘THE LOVE’s CRIMINAL’, etc.

I could catch, what was on their mind. That they tried to expressed, “How could I left Saiful Malook in the darkness alone? Why don’t I accompany his days in Mental Hospital? Why don’t you wait him and marry him?”

WHAT?!?

“Am I wrong when I tried to get up by collecting pieces of the life that had been destroyed? Am I sinful if I try hard to love somebody else? “

I was not a Juliet who suicide by poison for her truly love Romeo, I was not Layla for her truly love Qays ‘Majnun’ or I was not Engtay who prefer to suicide to prove her deadly love to Sampek. I was only Jasmine ‘Badri Jamala’ for her Saiful Malook. May be Kooh-E-Kaf was not in Jakarta or Pakistan but in ‘nirwana’ (=Paradise).

Why don’t you think, what kind of Saiful Malook was he? How could he disappeared and gone with the wind when I needed him to accompany me? Why should He ran away from life issues? Why He failed to pass his own issues, in fact the future will be more challenging than past or now.

So please, if you asking me why I choose my own way? It doesn’t mean I try to avoid my past? I try to forget all Or I try to regret my past.

If I need to being honestly here. I’ve never regretted my life. Why should I regretted my fabulous life? If I’ve never met and separated to Saiful Malook, I would never recognized the Ambassador, I’d never made undergraduate theses about Pakistan, This novel never born, SBY would never recognized me, etc.

Saiful Malook only an episodes of my life. And I have to move to next episodes. And striving to go success for next step.

Thanks to Saiful Malook, my family, Pakistan, IPB, Escaeva, Samudera Indonesia, and all people who has inspired me a lot regarding this novel.
Special thanks to readers of SCSM around the world and some bloggers who wrote something nice about SCSM.
I LOVE YOU ALL,
I’ll never regret this episodes of life. It’s a wonderful life…

Insha Allah, SCSM will satisfy all of by English and Urdu version soon. Pray for us!

Love Jasmine
***YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK ALL DAY LONG! KHAWAB SUCHA HOJAIGA!***

P.S. Woy...!Itukan cuma novel, jangan dibuat serius lah! Jasmine bisa stress nanti. Hehehe...btw thanks alot yah.
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Tuesday, December 12, 2006

Suddenly, I miss BDU



Alone and lonely will be always accompany me nowadays.
Even in office.
I lost my happy days in BDU.
One by one of my friends will go with the wind.

Started from the deadly emptiness on last 7th month.
I could catched how the spirit had gone with the wind.
No wonder, if we prefer to having fun together.
Used a day on a week to go somewhere.
Hang out.......

I remember how crazy we were,
When we decided spontaneusly to having fun on DUFAN Ancol(=Fantasy World).
Wuahahahah........I could believe finally we went there.
It was fun.
Tried to forget the depression by laughing and shouting as load as possible.
Forget all all misserable in the office.

How could?

Seemed indoor activity such as bowling or eating not enough.
So we chose DUFAN.

I still remember, how we queued patiently to enter 'Planet' games.
Wuahahah........an hour only paid by 15 minutes shooting games.
But it was okey, as long we could laugh together.

Now, everything has gone with the wind.
I'll never rewind the happy time records.
Every episodes has its own period.
And the period of BDU has over.

After Mr. Hafiz, now turn Babeh Armand.......
Then???

The reasons why I keep staying here is:
I LOVE THIS PLACE
I LOVE THE PEOPLE INSIDE
I LOVE THE SPIRIT
I LOVE THE DREAM
I LOVE THE TOGETHERNESS
ETC

Someday when has come my turn to get out.
I'll go with the key of my next dream.

I consider this is as part of my wonderful life episodes.
The SURAT CINTA SAIFUL MALOOK will never born, If I've never been here.

I still believe its one of ALLAH's plans for me.

About the reasons why I chose this as my 1st step after graduate? I just followed the life game. As a fresh graduated I applied to many companies by Jobsdb. Even I forgot what have I applied. JUst applied and waited. And Mr. Thomas called me. Honestly I hadnt heard it before. They only offered as internship. Hem........

While I was also in another recruitment process. As a fresh graduated ofcourse I prefer to work in another company which offered me fixed status and higher income. But, I followed my heart. I did what my mom said, "Choose with feeling. Dont judge from its money only".

When I asked also to my baba Mustafa (Ambassador of Pakistan who was written my preface), He also suggested me to take SAMUDERA INDONESIA. Well........I had no doubt. I took the chance to get involved with BDU SIG team.

Could you imagine what I got??? Allah shower me blessings with a nice environtment, nice boss, nice job, nice co-worker, nice spirit. And I could get another dreams. And.........and..........and....... I will never regreet I've been here.

I LOVE BDU. I LOVE SIG........

When my episodes here is over. No worries for me, because Allah has prepared better plans.


P.S. YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK ALL DAY LONG
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Monday, December 11, 2006

Letter for My Husband



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وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلاَّ تُقْسِطُواْ فِي الْيَتَامَى فَانكِحُواْ مَا طَابَ لَكُم مِّنَ النِّسَاء مَثْنَى وَثُلاَثَ وَرُبَاعَ فَإِنْ خِفْتُم
أَلاَّ تَعْدِلُواْ فَوَاحِدَةً أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ ذَلِكَ أَدْنَى أَلاَّ تَعُولُواْ

[An Nisa 4:3] And if you fear that you cannot act equitably towards orphans, then marry such women as seem good to you, two and three and four; but if you fear that you will not do justice (between them), then (marry) only one or what your right hands possess; this is more proper, that you may not deviate from the right course.

وَلَن تَسْتَطِيعُواْ أَن تَعْدِلُواْ بَيْنَ النِّسَاء وَلَوْ حَرَصْتُمْ فَلاَ تَمِيلُواْ كُلَّ الْمَيْلِ فَتَذَرُوهَا كَالْمُعَلَّقَةِ وَإِن تُصْلِحُواْ وَتَتَّقُواْ فَإِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا
[An Nisa 4:129] And you have it not in your power to do justice between wives, even though you may wish (it), but be not disinclined (from one) with total disinclination, so that you leave her as it were in suspense; and if you effect a reconciliation and guard (against evil), then surely Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.

Oh my beloved husband, I love you for the sake of Allah.
Insha Allah, I'll always stand by you a hole of my life.
Until we return to Allah.
We'll be always together in happiness or sadness.
Together build our lovely family with our kids.
See our kids grown up.

Beloved, please let me know, when I fall down!
Please advise me if I dont satisfy you.
Please let me know!
And I'll improve myself to satisfy you for the sake of Allah.

Supposing that, in our sestiny has written that we are not longer together.
Insha Allah, I'll try to accept it as my destiny.
If you want to do polygamy, please let me know!
Let discuss it together.
I dont want to ignore the truth that our religion declared.

You may marry, if only:

***I'm infertile (na'udzubillahi min dzalik)
Yeah I know, I'll be okey with this reasons. But I think, it will hard for me to see you happy with your new baby who born from other woman. While I lost my confidence due to I'm infertile. MY beloved husband, may I ask divorce from you?

***I'm frigid (na'udzubillahi min dzalik)
Yeah I know, you have manly needs that urgently to fulfil. If I close my eyes about my weakness it means I dont care If you getting closer to ZINAH. Oh my beloved husband you may marry due to this. I'll be okey.
But wait........I think I cant see you live happyly with other woman. How could I see you making romance with her?
Mmmhhh, may I ask divorce from you?


But I'll help you to choose women, if you really want to do sunnah as Rasulullah did. I'll totally support you. I want to be your fairy in Jannah (=paradise). Let me choose your next wife according to Sunnah Rasul:

Do you still remember Mak Minah? Our neighbor. She is an 69 years old widow. No kids. She is living alone, no family beside her. And her husband has passed away since 20 years ago. She works as maid to fulfill her daily needs. How a pity Mak Minah. She has to pass her old day by working hard. Would you mind if She's being a part of our lovely family? Would you marry here? I'll be okey if she is being your 2nd wife. So I will have a friend when you are far away from house.

Or Pok Ponijem who lives not far from our street. She is 50 yrs old. A widow with 10 kids. She would prefer to divorce with her husband than converted her Islam to her husband new religion. She prefer to live along with her kids only. As long they still in Islam, she doesnt care with anything. She is a trully moslemah who hardly strugle for her religion. She can work anything as long its halaal and her family can continue live. Oh, how tremendous is she?
Beloved, would you marry her? She's be our partner to build a sakinah family. We can rent house for her and her kids. Or may be they can live in our big house. Oh...

Or may be Cut Meena, a newly comer on this area. Her husband died in Aceh, He was killed by separatism gangster. Cut Meena now is living along with her son. All of her family in Aceh died due to Tsunami. She has 7yrs old boy. She is a woman with softly heart. She is a pious moslemah. Yeah, because She was Quran theacher in Aceh. Her age still 42 yrs old (I'm 24 yrs old). Beloved, would you marry her???

Beloved, can choose one of them to be your next wife, I mean 2nd wife. But, If you really want to do polygamy as Rasulullah did. I'll be okey if you marry all of them. Mak Minan as 2nd wife, Pok Ponijem as 3rd wife and Cut Meena as 4th wife. ANd I'm as 1st wife. Hows that?

Insya Allah we'll meet again in Jannah. Ameen

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POLYGAMI



وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلاَّ تُقْسِطُواْ فِي الْيَتَامَى فَانكِحُواْ مَا طَابَ لَكُم مِّنَ النِّسَاء مَثْنَى وَثُلاَثَ وَرُبَاعَ فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلاَّ تَعْدِلُواْ فَوَاحِدَةً أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ ذَلِكَ أَدْنَى أَلاَّ تَعُولُواْ
[An Nisa 4:3] And if you fear that you cannot act equitably towards orphans, then marry such women as seem good to you, two and three and four; but if you fear that you will not do justice (between them), then (marry) only one or what your right hands possess; this is more proper, that you may not deviate from the right course.

وَلَن تَسْتَطِيعُواْ أَن تَعْدِلُواْ بَيْنَ النِّسَاء وَلَوْ حَرَصْتُمْ فَلاَ تَمِيلُواْ كُلَّ الْمَيْلِ فَتَذَرُوهَا كَالْمُعَلَّقَةِ وَإِن تُصْلِحُواْ وَتَتَّقُواْ فَإِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا
[An Nisa 4:129] And you have it not in your power to do justice between wives, even though you may wish (it), but be not disinclined (from one) with total disinclination, so that you leave her as it were in suspense; and if you effect a reconciliation and guard (against evil), then surely Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.

I didnt see ayah that facilitate or motivate a man to do polygamy. If they understood what that ayah said, they will thinking thousand times to do Polygamy. Why? Because, noone can be fair.

Strangely, this ayah became the "right to be full of the" man" to do polygamy.
They claimed, the action to follow sunah the Prophet Muhammad SAW. became ridiculous when the practice of polygamy was in fact used as the Islamic benchmark: increasingly active polygamy was regarded as increasingly good position of his piety.
Or, increasingly patient a wife received destiny as the 1st wife equal to increasingly good the quality of his faith.

The prophet of Mohammad didnt do polygamy when He married with Khadeeja. Later, The prophet of Mohammad married with Aisyah (the only virgin's wife that Rasulullah had). When He married with Aisya He did Polygamy with old widow women who had kids. Rasulullah did that because He wanted to kept their honor and deen, not only to fulfil His manly needs. He married them for the sake of Allah.

If He married only for 'fun' why should He married with older women?

Think about that!

But what happen now? A man do polygamy by hurting his 1st wife? Why hurt? Because He marry with a younger, more attractive than his 1st wife.

Hi men!!! If you really want to complete your deen by follows Sunnah Rasul. You should do it totally! If you want to do Polygamy according to sunnah as Rasulullah did, just married with old widow women with many kids who need your attentions.
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Bunga Desember : Haemanthus multiflorus (Tratt.) Martyn.



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Bunga Desember or Blood Lily or Haemanthus multiflorus (Tratt.) Martyn. is one of rare's plant in the world.

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According to its name BUNGA DESEMBER. Bunga = flower, Desember = December. This flower only blossoms on December. At the End of November, its ready to blossom. And Tarram........here the blood lily. I love this flower. My mom planted it with love. In my region, my mom the only one who has 'BUNGA DESEMBER'. We proud of it. My mom got it from some forest in my mom hometown PURWOREJO. Here I will give all of you some information regarding this flower:

Classification:
Division---Spermatophyta
Subdivision---Angiospermae
Class---Monocotyledoneae
Ordo---Liliales
Genus---Amaryllidaceae
Species---Haemanthus multiflorus (tratt.) Martyn

Known Name: Bunga Desember or Blood Lily

The usefullnes:

***Can be used for burn injury. How to use?
1. Wash Fresh bulb of Haemanthus multiflorus
2. Grate it
3. Stuck in the injury part

Chemistry Contains:

*** Leaf, flower, and the bulbs of Haemanthus multiflorus contains of saponin and flavonoida.
*** Leaf also contains of polifenol


Do you have this fabulous flower?
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My Secreet Dua....



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Ya Allah, Please forgive me!
Dont let me go ashtray! Guide me!!!
Thans for this beautiful life.
Thanks for unforgetable moments.

I know how sinful Iam.
I know I'm unworthy to beg you something to you.
But I dont know where should I share?
To whom I should beg?
You are the only one who never ignore me.
So I come to you.

You know how I miss my Islamic Marriage.
How I miss a man who can be Imam in my life.
How I miss sweet time with a pious man.
How I miss the time with my own kids.
How I miss being a pious moslemah who'll always stand by with my husband and kids.

How I'm afraid getting involved with unlawful affairs.
Love affairs without marriage.
I'm afraid.....

I know you've created love inside my heart.
But I'm scared its not the love for your pleasure.
I'm afraid.......

Ya Allah, if he's not the man on my destiny.
Please take all love's feeling in my heart.
I dont want my love to him, replace my trully love to you.

Ya Allah, if my destiny hasnt written about a companion of life,
Please take me away from these topsy-turvy life.
Dont let me love someone who's not mine.

I know whatever that you give to me is the most wonderful,
The best that I've ever have.

I beg to you, let me out from these.
Dont let my mind busy with 'something stupid'

Please.......!

I want to go.
I dont want just hoping.

What will be the next episodes of mine?
What?
I'm waiting.
I 'm sure you've prepared some ways out.

Please extend my age if in my remain ages will be useful for people and Islam
If my remain ages will not useful, please let me die young.
Better die young when I'm still in high spirit with Islam
Than long life, but I just add my sins
Ameen........Ameen........Ya Rabbal A'lamien

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Friday, December 08, 2006

The meaning of My Name Part 2: RISMA BUDIYANI



The girl's name risma is of Greek origin, and its meaning is "blessing." Originally referred to the spiritual gifts bestowed by the Holy Spirit on the apostles.


Budi in Javanese Language means of Kind, Kindness

Yani was taken from Urdu word 'Jaanan, Jaani' which means of Dear, as Loving as Life

So the means of RISMA BUDIYANI is A lovely kind girl who can be blessings for all people

Hem.............nice transliteration. What do you think?
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Thursday, December 07, 2006

MY MOOD........



Hi...!!!
I'm not in good mood today.
I dont know what should I write.
So I just want to keep silent for a while.

Little bit sick.......
But I'm still fasting sunnah.

Insha Allah,
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Wednesday, December 06, 2006

The meaning of my name





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Like algebra, ream has Arabic as its source: rizmah "bale or bundle". Middle English acquired the word in the latter half of the 14th century, when it was spelled rem or reme. By the late 15th century the form reame had appeared, and the final e was dropped by the mid-18th century. Old French had several different forms of the word, too, including rayme and remme, while in modern French it is rame. The Spanish and Portuguese equivalent is resma, and Italian, via Medieval Latin, is risma. Middle High German seems to have acquired the word from Italy, resulting in the modern German form ries, and Danish and Swedish apparently took it from German as ris. It is interesting to note that the French seem to have dropped the s/z sound of the Arabic form, while the other Romance languages kept that phoneme.
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WHITE HOUSE PRESS RELEASE



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***Insha Allah, I'll pray for you my dearest uncle
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My Album Release



Its my 1st Album about 'Self Development'. How to be succesful people. Please get it out from nearest book store. The price is 250,000 Rupiahs (28 US$). Buy one get one free Inspiring Book "The Power of Your Subsconscious Mind" by Murphy. Check it out!!!

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Here is my 2nd Album. Its trully confessions from the author of SURAT CINTA SAIFUL MALOOK. This album is back stage confession about my 2nd book, "LOVE FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH". WIll be launched at Shah Jahan Restaurant (Hotel Shahid Jaya Hotel, Jakarta) on December 2006. Get the cassetes on the nearest bookstores! Come and join us for launching and book signing.

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***Cheers***
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Tuesday, December 05, 2006

Dua for my husband



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The Dua’a is recommended to be recited on some sweet and the same should be eaten by both the person particularly wife and husband for one week. There will be great affection and love between them Insha Allah.

Transliteration: INNI AHBATO HOOBBAL-KHAIRE AN ZIKRE RABBI HATTA TAVARAT BIL-HIJAB
Verily I have loved the good things besides the remembrance of my Lord, until got hidden in the veil (of the darkness of the Night) (38: 32)


The following Verse of Quran is recommended to be recited on sweet and the same is eaten by the displeased person or husband, he will be pleased and there will be on friction between them.

Transliteration:YOHIBBOHOOM WA YOHIBBOONAHOO AZIL-LATIN ALAL-MO'MEENEENA AIZZATIN ALAL KAFEREEN
Them he loveth and they love Him, lowly before the believers, mighty
against the infidels.


The following Quranic verse is very effective for affection and love between two persons particularly wife & husband. It is recommended that this Verse should be recited on some sweet and should be eaten by both of them, there will be great affection and love within a week, Insha Allah.

Transliteration: INNAL LAZEENA AMANOO WA AMELOOS-SALEHATE SAYAJ'ALO LAHOMOOR-RAHMANO VOODDA
Verily those who believes and work good deeds the Beneficent (God) will appoint love for them.
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Monday, December 04, 2006

I'm just confused



Allah is great

I'm just confused. I dont know why?
I lost my confidence.
Why...Allah create LOVE and all topsy-turvy life inside?
Why a man cant love as Woman?

***Ya Allah........dont make me confused with all phenomenons!

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The Ideal Muslim Husband



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Abu Hurayrah related that the Prophet (SAWS) said:

"The most perfect believer is he whose conduct is best, and the best among you is he who behaves best towards his wife"
[at-Tirmidhi]

* He treats his wife fairly and decently.

* He shouldn't let his study, work, hobbies, responsibilities or friends take up all his time and keep him from her.

* Islam guarantees woman's rights to enjoy her husband to the extent that it even tells the husband not to spend all his time in worship. Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al 'As relates that the prophet (saws) said:

"Have I not heard that you fast all day and stay up all night in prayer?" Abdullah said, "That is true, O Messenger of Allah." The Prophet (Saws) told him: "Do not do that. Fast and break your fast, sleep and get up. For your body has a right over you, your eyes have a right over you, your wife has a right over you, and your visitors have a right over you." [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

* He should treat his wife in the best possible way, with a smiling face, tolerance, easy-going and light-hearted nature, and gentle humor.

Aisha (RA) reported that when she went on a journey with the Prophet (Saws), she challenged him to a race and won. Later, when she had gained weight, she raced him again, but this time he won, and he told her, "This is for that". [sahih hadith narrated by Ahmed and Abu Dawud]

In another report, Aisha said:

"By Allah, I saw the Prophet (Saws) standing at the door of my room, when some Abyssinians were playing with spears in the mosque. The Messenger of Allah (saws) screened me with his cloak so that I could watch the spear-play over his shoulder. He stayed there for my sake , until I had seen enough. So pay attention to young girl's need for entertainment." [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

* Should make himself attractive to her

* He does not overreact and become angry for trivial reason [many ignorant husbands do, creating chaos if their wives offer them food that they don't like, or if their meal is late, or any other reason which usually causes an unnecessary amount of anger, arguments and trouble between spouses].

* He has a deep and compassionate understanding of his wife's nature and psychology.

*He directs his wife towards the straight path of Islam

*He recognizes what she likes, what she desires, her moods, and tries to reconcile between them and the ideal life and behavior he wants for her. font>

*He understands his wife and respects her feelings

*He does not criticize her family or any of her relations to her. (She shouldn't do this as well, of course)

*He does not disclose any secrets that she entrusted him with.

*He helps her make up for her failings and weaknesses

-for example, if she is lacking in knowwledge or manners, he should help her in a kind, gentle , and positive manner. . He avoids harsh criticism [especially in front of people]. The true Muslim is the most sensitive and respectful towards the feelings of others.

*He knows how to strike a balance between pleasing his wife and treating his mother with due kindness and respect. He tries not to offend either one of them. He is not disobedient towards his mother or oppressive towards his wife. He recognizes his mother's rights and treats her in the best way, while also recognizing his wife's rights.

*He totally understands his role as a protector and maintainer of women [Qawwam]

-With a good attitude and gentle treatment, the Muslim husband wins the heart of his wife so that she does not disobey him in anything

---In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful---

"Men are the protectors and maintainers {qawwamun] of women, because Allah has given the one more [strength] than the other and because they support them from their means.." [Quran, Al-Nisa 4:34]

The Prophet said:

"Each of you is a shepherd, and each of you is responsible for those under his care. A ruler is a shephard; a man is the shepherd of his family; a woman is the shepherd of her husband's house and children. For each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for those under his care." [Agreed upon]

Concluding, the Ideal Muslim husband has a strong and likeable personality, a noble attitude, tolerance and forgiveness for minor mistakes, strong adherence to the laws of Allah and determination to apply them to his family, generosity without being extravagant, and a clear understanding of an Ideal Muslim home.

The Husband's obligations; Women's rights

1. He is commanded to be kind to his wife

2. He is commanded to comfort his wife

3. He should consort with his wife in an equitable and kind manner

4. He is responsible for full maintenance of the wife, in a cheerful manner

-lodging, clothing, sustenance, general care and well being, privacy, comfort, and independence, she has the right to be cared by her husband in accordance to her style of life [to the best of his ability of course]

5. He should recognize that the wife's material rights are not her only securities. She has rights of moral nature.

6. A husband is commanded to treat his wife with equity, to respect her feelings, and to show kindness and consideration.

7. If he has no love or sympathy for her. She has the right to demand freedom from the marital bond, and no one may stand in her way.



"Live with your wives in a good manner. If you dislike them in any manner,

it may be that you dislike something in which Allah

has placed much good for you."

Surah 4 - Ayah 19
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WANTED : An Ideal Muslim Husband



1. A Pious Muslim

2. Truthfulness and honesty

3. A good leader

4. Justice and fairness

5. Love of children

6. Kindness and consideration

7. Readiness to consult his wife

8. Good manners

9. Chastity and good morals

10. Trustworthiness and reliability

11. Avoids quarrelling and beating

12. Clean habits

13. Strength of mind and will

14. Gentleness

15. Generosity

16. A loving nature

17. Ability to be contented with one wife

18. Sense of humour

19. Reasonableness

20. Firmness

21. Intelligence

22. Seriousness

23. Good looks

24. Physical strength

25. Wealth



+++ LOYAL until die separate us
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The meaning of INSHA ALLAH



Insha'Allah (إن شاء الله) is an Arabic term evoked by Muslims to indicate hope for an aforementioned event to occur in the future. The phrase translates into English as "If it is God's will".

The term is also related to another Arabic term, Masha'Allah (ما شاء الله), which means "God has willed it".

This word is often used to indicate a desire to do something that may not actually occur. This also provides wiggle room for someone who may feel obligated to agree to something, but prefer not to do it. In Judaism, B'ezrat Hashem (בעזרת השם) and Im Irtze Hashem (אם ירצה השם) are used for the same reason.

Usage of Insha'Allah derives from Islamic scripture, Surat Al Kahf (18):24 :
إِلَّا أَن يَشَاء اللَّهُ وَاذْكُر رَّبَّكَ إِذَا نَسِيتَ وَقُلْ عَسَى أَن يَهْدِيَنِ رَبِّي لِأَقْرَبَ مِنْ هَذَا رَشَدًا
"And never say of anything, 'I shall do such and such thing tomorrow. Except (with the saying): 'If Allah wills!' And remember your lord when you forget..."

When a person wishes to plan for the future, when he promises, when he makes resolutions, and when he makes a pledge, he makes them with permission and the will of Allah. For this reason, a Muslim uses the Qur'anic instructions by saying "In Sha ' Allah." The meaning of this statement is: "If Allah wills." Muslims are to strive hard and to put their trusts with Allah. They leave the results in the hands of Allah.

If you are a moslem and saying, "Insha Allah" only to satisfy people for a while but you dont have any intention to fulfill it. SHAME ON YOU!!!
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