Monday, February 18, 2008



WHY SHOULD I MARRY ?

These few weeks, will be my hectic days. I'm preparing my wedding. Not only me but a whole of family, and ofcourse my dear one. I've never imagined its gonna be big job. Masha Allah....

One night, I woke up for tahajud. Not same like the other night. That night, I was asking to myself about 'Why should I marry ?". I dont want the wedding plan is only a big plan to show the world how finally love combines me and my dear one. Most of couple was very exciting on preparing wedding. They were exciting to show the world, that finally they succesfully passed single phase and met with their soulmate. Big party would be held to celebrate their wedding. Even most couple tried hard to get debt in big amount only to celebrate one moment. Yeah, wedding ceremony is so much important for some people.

What about me? Although me and my dear one knew better about Islamic concept. We are accepting Islamic concept to marry as simple as possible. Akad nikah in Masjid with humility moment. Every body comes to pray ou happiness. Then we pass our wedding nite by praying together, reciting quran, then romantic nite. Masha Allah.

But, I'm living in society. I'm the first and the only daughter in my family. My parents will not allowing us mary without wedding party. Thats a big deal. Before I felt, my goal to marry isnt right. I contemplated my self in silence night after tahajud.

Why should I marry ?

  1. Because I need to complete my deen by marriage a pious man.
  2. Because I need to have family that will make I have goal of life. While I'm single all goals seemed so egoist. I just want to make my self fun enough. No responsible to maintain it goal. Well, I dont have hubby, kids, etc. Why should I save my money. hehehhehe..........
  3. I will only marry with a man that can be my Imaam. Its enough for me. I dont care who is he. Is he black, has different caste, country, welfare, etc. If he is a pious one, he will never hurt me. Insha Allah. And I have a partner to enter Jannah.
  4. I love him for the sake of Allah, I dont want my love is going to bad love as other couple do.
  5. hem....little dream. I just want to be happy in dunya and akhirat.

Ameen...............

So readers, I think I have ending story for my next novel. The novel was unfinished due to I was still finding my ending story. But now, I know............Stay june on this year for my next novel.


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