APA KABAR CINTA?

Apa kabar (=How are you? or hows?) Cinta (=love)

Apa kabar Cinta? Does it still stay in our heart?

What kind of love that you have? If you love someone or something not for the sake of Allah, obviously you'll get dissapointed. Love to something or someone is not everlasting as we love for the sake of Allah.

Example:

You were mad in love with someone pretty. She was so beautiful & sexy . You thought she was the most wonderful miracle in the world. Then you considered to marry her. Yeah, at the 1st year may be you were the most happiness person in the world. Even, when she gave birth until 2nd child. She was still a perfect lady. But obviously, by the time age will killed her young. The girl who was so beautiful, sexy, kind became contradiction. She is not beautiful or sexy anymore, due to she is become older now. She is not a girl who you loved before. Due to you loved and married her for phisically reasons. So when all of that has dissapeared, so your love will dissapeared also. No more love. And you become dissapointed because she is not the one who you loved. She is definitely different from 20years ago.

Or you were loving someone rich. He heredited his parent dinasty, with a lot of business. Many luxury cars and deposited banks. bla...bla ...bla...And then you married him for that reasons. After 5 years marriages, you faced something bad. Your husband bancrupted. No more deposited money in the bank. All cars has been sold. Bank has taken all of your husband business. Is there still any love???

I dont think so, because you love him for material reasons. After he lost all the attractive things. So you leave him in sadness.

How a pity you who love someone for that stupid reasons!

Life is too short to have fun only.

Why dont we love someone by some reasons that will remind us about ALLAH. That someday we'll return to ALLAH and we need a partner to keep striving in Allah's way. And you request from Allah, the chosen prince who'll accompany you to strive. And when Allah's has given him/her, you love him/her for the sake of Allah You love him/her just because you sure that he/she is someone special. He/she is too speacial to accompany you pass this 'dunya' (=world) to 'jannah' (=paradise).

Insha Allah, you'll not get dissapointed.

"Love is unconditional and marriage is not". Whats the mean of love is unconditional? Does it means you love someone without any condition? You just love him/her and you will not ask more. You'll not ask for long term relationship in marriage. Because marriage will need alot of commitments, paperworks, costs a lot of money, etc. They enjoy their love without marriage. Love just love, no responsibilities. Even some of decide to keep staying outside marriage. Living together without marriage, based on mutualism. Or they do marriage but without paperwork. And ofcourse they do as what husband-wife do. They have babies. But they keep avoiding marriage. They dont believe marriage. As long they love on each other, they will live happily in that relationship. Because they consider love is unconditional.

I dissagree with this sentences. Because as a moslemah, it will be my pride if someone loves me and only propose me for marriage. He only wants to dedicate his special love for me only in blessing relationship. He is ready to sacrifice his private life to commit with his wife only. He is ready to provide all that his wife needs. For him commitments, paperworks, etc are the easy things to fulfill.

"Love in marriage is unconditional"

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