ONE. Give people more than the expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it.

FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.

SIX.. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"

FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN. Say "Rahimakallah" when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson .

SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.
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I DEADLY YEARN MY PAST...

Do you ever miss your past? About life episodes that has gone with the time. Some life experiences that you ignored but now you miss all of that. About your stupidity, enemies, friends, special friends, ptoblems, etc.

Ah now I'm missing some of them;

• My college time, when I was absent and asked my best friend to signing my presence list.
• My college time, when I booked the strategic place to listen lecturer.
• When I was taking bus Ciputat-Bogor and took a look of Parung views. The centre of prostitution. How was the society accepting prostitussion as normal profession. When I saw kids went home from masjid with their veil and Quran and kissed their mom's hand. Their mom wore sexy dress, made up herself to wait guest.
• Reading in campus library.
• Chatting with Saiful Malook
• Eating soto mie with Widi, DJ, Irma, Dewi, and Ari. Meanwhile we were dreaming about our bright future.
• Enjoyed my absent time with Sumiyati.
• My life as a teacher in bilingual pre-school e.g. : teaching, making display, conversation on lunch, singing, managed stage performance, etc.
• Lilis (my smartest student), Dinda (my strangest student), etc...
• My school principal who paid me Rp 1,050,000 for the 1st.
• Lanny, Ardia, Ida, bu Kukun, Mbak Titin, Bu Inti all of Cordova member...
• Embassy of Pakistan's family
• Pak Dedi Budiman Hakim, my theses councelor
• KKN at BOJONG CAE ; Abang, Fian, DJ, Desi, the villagers, ustad keparat, Dicky an other teams
• My admirers
• my relatives who had passed away
• Mas Surya, someone who gave me book "The Power of Unconscious Mind".
• etc

I miss all people who had made my life wonderful and colorful....But I dont want to repeat my time. A wise lady told me, "Whatever that happens now is the best. Allah gives that because HE sure that is best for you now. So why bother?"

Yeah.........I'm enjoying my time. Alhamdulillah...

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BEHEL

Its a hot gossip. Its been almost 3 months I wear BEHEL. Do you know whats the mean of BEHEL? Its teeth hedge. Iron wire, iron bracket and colorful rubber. It is one of orthopedic treatment to tidy the teeth up. My dentist suggested me to wear behel. I have disorder teeth, due to my small jaw. First I had never consider to wear that. It costs a lot of money. The price equal to motorcycle price. And it will be another cost each month for treatment. Hem........but I consider the result after 2 years. I will have beautiful teeth. Although most of my friends said that I have no problem with my teeth. But I felt I have to do it now before late.

Yeah...my life with behel has begined. Masha ALLAH, it was hurt. The dentist should pulled 4 teeths out. And I cant eat easyly with my wire & bracket. PAINFUL. Now I'm going to realize that beauty is painful.

BEHEL is not only a treatment. But an accessories. If you meet me, you'll see that my rubber color is suitable with my dress. Hehhe......keep FUNKY. I dont feel I'm such of BETTY LAFEA. I'm getting more funky as before with my behel (NARCIST......).

See you!!!

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CATERING

Our 1st catering order on 2nd June 2007 In Bogor. It was a wedding party of Haji Roesli's daughter. Seemed he was an executive member of PPP. The guests were some important person such as Governor of Jakarta Sutiyoso, Shihab, member of legislative board, etc. After this we got other orders. Ameen.

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REST IN PEACE

Name was FANNY. She was a little girl who lived near my house. She was raised up by traditonal family called BETAWI (a native of Jakarta). Actually, her family was a land owner. But by the time after her grand pa passed away. She was just a little girl from a simple BETAWI's family. Her mom is a teacher of Islamic Private School and her dad is an employee of NGO.

Three months behind, She was lying down in hospital. Doctor team on Fatmawati Hospital (Government hospital in South Jakarta) diagnosed that she had heart attack. After a month she was treated by hospital then finally she went home. But She couldnt playing as before. She had to take a rest.

After a week, again her healthy dropped. She was sent to centre hospital (RSCM). And the doctor said, she not only had heart disease but also LEVER and LEUKIMIA. Masha ALLAH. And day by day, she had to spend her life on bed under doctor & paramedic supervised. Her family had spent a lot of money for her. But we were her neighbor also helped her financially. Her mom's student, co worker and her dad's collegues. But the money was too much expensive. And I was sure that her parents also asked some helps for loan.

FANNY got her 1st chemotherapy. But everyday, she should got medicines and special injection. The doctor said, Fanny should be treated for 20 years to get well as before. Masha ALLAH, I couldnt imagine how much money should they paid for FANNY. There was a medicine with cost 1.8 million rupiahs per cc. What about pills, tablets, injections, hospital room, infus, etc???

Few days ago, Fanny asked her parents to bring all of her pictures to hospital. She asked permission to cut all of her picture by scissor. She begged with tears. Her parents finally allowed her to cut all of her documentation. Yeah, she didnt want her family became sad when she left the world forever.

Yesterday (18th June 2007), she passed away at 3 pm. Hen I came there, I saw that she had beautiful face. I imagined her as a fairy of paradise. She looked happy entering her new life.

ALLAH called her, because HE didnt want to see her miserable any longer. May be FANNY didnt want to be burden for her family. The cost for her 3 months was too expensive, and had made her family bancrupt. What about 20 years? No........Fanny was prefer to follow her angel. She went to a better place in Jannah. She didnt want to leave any miserable anymore to her beloved family.

Bye FANNY. We will always remember how pretty, funny and smart you were. I love you. Pass my best regards to your new friends.

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LOST???

One thing that made me feel not good few weeks behind, that I was getting realize that I was going to bancruptcy. I was afraid of being miserable. But when I cried to admid that I had given up, I worried that I have been COWARD. As long as I remember, I'm a bachelor of Agribusiness. I got A for business subjects. I'd never faced difficult to answer ESSAY. But why I was empty when I had to answer the reality. Uffhhhhh..........Masha Allah.

I suddenly realize that I have been wasting 6000 US$. But what have I gotten? I got loss, valuable experiences, spirit, soul, dynamic of business flow. I'd never gotten that issues on my SUBJECTS when I was still registered as a student of Agribusiness on Bogor Agricultural University.

Thanks to KOTLER who has taught me that product, price, place, promotion are the important things that a marketer (enterpreuner) should understand. But...why we just understand without do something. Hehehe....

Thanks to my friends FITRIA MOORCY who has pushed me alot to recognize my brand image. Hahahha....and I'm sure that she still didnt understand why I just cried when answer her simple question. Hahahahha.....I was lil' bit depressed....

But wallahi, I have to keep faith due to someone has trusted me...

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